It's Happening!!!...my girlfriend who's been dead crazy about me is loosing interest cuz of me being a total AFC!...someone needs to help me out QUICK!...i can really really tell that she's loosing interest...it proves that looks isn't everything cuz i can honestly say that i'm one good looking guy but i fail short with everything else...i do show some confidence and such but i just can't be a MAN that she wants...i show too much emotion...too much love...too much attention and it's really really hurting me...today she told me this guy in her class was flirting with her, giving her high fives and all that and i was dead jealous...i'm so pissed that i think it's helping me out in a different way cuz right now i feel like flirting with many girls in college and just expanding my connections with the ladies...i need some major help cuz i really fell for this girl and i'm damn sure that if things don't work out it'll hurt me bad...i know i'm being such a p*ssy right now but i really need help...what should i do?...ignore her?...act like i don't care?...i'm so confused...all the things i've read is becoming useless...someone wake me up and tell me what to do!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
OMG...I don't believe it!!!
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Precursor
Don Juan
So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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i do. it gets me in the door always.Precursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
yeah...big mistake on my part...personality is definitely much more important...though if you have both then be thankful...lolPrecursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what do you mean i don't love her?...i do...but yeah...looks can difinitely take you far...yup that's the same girl... = (Michele said:i do. it gets me in the door always.
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
you're right...i have oneitis...BIG TIME!!!...i don't know...i really need to change...be a man...not to be afraid to loose a girl cuz theres' plenty but this girl just got me bad...just the thought of other guys banging the living hell out of her drives me crazy...she's a keeper...that's why i need to work on my game...ugh!...anymore advice besides keeping my life and keeping contact with ladies and not pay so much attention to her?limerick said:NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
everything is true...for me the relationship isn't boring but it is becoming a routine and she might be getting tired and is looking for other guy to give her new excitement...i will definitely start making more friends especially with girls...from my own experience i know how devastating it is for your girlfriend flirting with other guys so that's exactly what i'm going to do...thanks for the advice!~foomee said:You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
stop talking to her, concentrate on other girls.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.