It's Happening!!!...my girlfriend who's been dead crazy about me is loosing interest cuz of me being a total AFC!...someone needs to help me out QUICK!...i can really really tell that she's loosing interest...it proves that looks isn't everything cuz i can honestly say that i'm one good looking guy but i fail short with everything else...i do show some confidence and such but i just can't be a MAN that she wants...i show too much emotion...too much love...too much attention and it's really really hurting me...today she told me this guy in her class was flirting with her, giving her high fives and all that and i was dead jealous...i'm so pissed that i think it's helping me out in a different way cuz right now i feel like flirting with many girls in college and just expanding my connections with the ladies...i need some major help cuz i really fell for this girl and i'm damn sure that if things don't work out it'll hurt me bad...i know i'm being such a p*ssy right now but i really need help...what should i do?...ignore her?...act like i don't care?...i'm so confused...all the things i've read is becoming useless...someone wake me up and tell me what to do!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
OMG...I don't believe it!!!
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Precursor
Don Juan
So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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i do. it gets me in the door always.Precursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
yeah...big mistake on my part...personality is definitely much more important...though if you have both then be thankful...lolPrecursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what do you mean i don't love her?...i do...but yeah...looks can difinitely take you far...yup that's the same girl... = (Michele said:i do. it gets me in the door always.
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
you're right...i have oneitis...BIG TIME!!!...i don't know...i really need to change...be a man...not to be afraid to loose a girl cuz theres' plenty but this girl just got me bad...just the thought of other guys banging the living hell out of her drives me crazy...she's a keeper...that's why i need to work on my game...ugh!...anymore advice besides keeping my life and keeping contact with ladies and not pay so much attention to her?limerick said:NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
everything is true...for me the relationship isn't boring but it is becoming a routine and she might be getting tired and is looking for other guy to give her new excitement...i will definitely start making more friends especially with girls...from my own experience i know how devastating it is for your girlfriend flirting with other guys so that's exactly what i'm going to do...thanks for the advice!~foomee said:You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
stop talking to her, concentrate on other girls.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.