It's Happening!!!...my girlfriend who's been dead crazy about me is loosing interest cuz of me being a total AFC!...someone needs to help me out QUICK!...i can really really tell that she's loosing interest...it proves that looks isn't everything cuz i can honestly say that i'm one good looking guy but i fail short with everything else...i do show some confidence and such but i just can't be a MAN that she wants...i show too much emotion...too much love...too much attention and it's really really hurting me...today she told me this guy in her class was flirting with her, giving her high fives and all that and i was dead jealous...i'm so pissed that i think it's helping me out in a different way cuz right now i feel like flirting with many girls in college and just expanding my connections with the ladies...i need some major help cuz i really fell for this girl and i'm damn sure that if things don't work out it'll hurt me bad...i know i'm being such a p*ssy right now but i really need help...what should i do?...ignore her?...act like i don't care?...i'm so confused...all the things i've read is becoming useless...someone wake me up and tell me what to do!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
OMG...I don't believe it!!!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Precursor
Don Juan
So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
Michele l'Arcangelo
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i do. it gets me in the door always.Precursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
yeah...big mistake on my part...personality is definitely much more important...though if you have both then be thankful...lolPrecursor said:So you read the whole bible, and you still chose to rely heavily on your looks?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
what do you mean i don't love her?...i do...but yeah...looks can difinitely take you far...yup that's the same girl... = (Michele said:i do. it gets me in the door always.
but anyway.
break up with her already... is this the trick that turned around in class and blushed because she liked the guy behind her?
you don't love her.
and how come you didnt kill her yet and make her your undead minion?
you people NEVER take my advice! now log off of here.. and get on your necromancer and wreck havoc upon all b.tches!!!
you're right...i have oneitis...BIG TIME!!!...i don't know...i really need to change...be a man...not to be afraid to loose a girl cuz theres' plenty but this girl just got me bad...just the thought of other guys banging the living hell out of her drives me crazy...she's a keeper...that's why i need to work on my game...ugh!...anymore advice besides keeping my life and keeping contact with ladies and not pay so much attention to her?limerick said:NEVER rely on your looks alone!
YOU HAVE ONEITIS
hang out with other girls and stop giving her so much attention!
once she sees you with other girls and she's with taht one guy, she'll realize taht YOU are the prize, NOT her. If she ends up breaking up with you... you have that group of girls you've been flirting with to choose from.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
everything is true...for me the relationship isn't boring but it is becoming a routine and she might be getting tired and is looking for other guy to give her new excitement...i will definitely start making more friends especially with girls...from my own experience i know how devastating it is for your girlfriend flirting with other guys so that's exactly what i'm going to do...thanks for the advice!~foomee said:You need to go out and do other things other than being with her. Hang out with your friends, hang out with your female friends. You need to be a challenge. That's one of the number one reasons I hear why women break up with their boyfriends because the relationship got boring, it got stale, same old thing everyday, there was no more of a challenge. Hang out with her less, but when you do, make sure you two have SOO much fun.
The Shocker
Senior Don Juan
stop talking to her, concentrate on other girls.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.