"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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OMFGBBQ! Caught myself *supplicating* (jesus h christ)

Alphathree

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I'm not perfect, but I take pride in never supplicating. I consider it a speciality of mine.

So here I am reading mASF and feeling this *guilt* that HBTallgirl is just coming straight over to my place tomorrow, whereas I wanted to take her mini golfing first.

Keep in mind, this 'desire' to take her mini golfing had been riding in my subconscious for a while. It had never actually, fully surfaced consciously.

I don't want to go kick a fricking golf ball around... I WAS PLANNING TO SUPPLICATE!

Jesus.

This scares me. This is a very basic AFC behaviour. Granted, I didn't actually *do* it, but I was subconsciously thinking about it.

Society's program is clearly still lingering somewhere in my head. Frick.

I suppose the moral of this post is: ALWAYS WATCH your intent, however subtle, however unconscious.

Sigh, I wish I knew other players in real life. I do know naturals, but they would think websites like this are lame. I wish I knew other people *learning* to be players in real life.

Because if I knew such people, we could "debug" each other's actions and look for stupid beliefs like this.

I think I'm going to go write a journal of the past few days in great detail and see if I can catch myself supplicating anywhere else.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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MercutioTHEGREAT

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I must be stupid!!

WTF is supplicating??
 

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Originally posted by MercutioTHEGREAT
I must be stupid!!

WTF is supplicating??
sup·pli·cate Audio pronunciation of "supplicate" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (spl-kt)
v. sup·pli·cat·ed, sup·pli·cat·ing, sup·pli·cates
v. tr.

1. To ask for humbly or earnestly, as by praying.
2. To make a humble entreaty to; beseech.


v. intr.

To make a humble, earnest petition; beg.
 

Alphathree

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(In other words, I was trying to trade a 'fun date' for 'sex'... i.e. I was planning to use a very subtle form of BEGGING.)
 

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This post makes no sense to me, what is that you want to say or have a question?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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He is saying that he fell into the subconscious thinking that if he took her to play miniature golf and paid money to show her a fun time that she would "reward" him with sex. He didn't actually WANT to play golf...he subconsciously thought he had to take her on a date to "earn" sex.
 

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Alphathree, bro, you've helped me in the past, but these absolutly idiotic threads you've been making lately have got to stop.
 

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Originally posted by djaus111000
omfgbbq? please enlighten me
Yes... thats what I was thinking. What in the buggering hell does that mean?!

"Oh my fvcking god.. bumraped by queers?!"

:confused:

Please explain.
 

frivolousz21

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first off..I thought u said you were in love?

or is that another alphatree.

and thats not supplication.

thats wanting to get laid...and paying for it in a indirectway.


chill and have fun.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJDamage

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You are worring too much Alphatree.

Remember the goal of the date: TO HAVE A GOOD TIME WITH HER, no matter where you are and what you are doing and in doing so you will probably end up getting more good time (sex).

Supplicating was if you were getting nothing from this date. If you took her mini golfing and she had a good time and you didn't because you really didn't like her company and was only doing it so she can like you more and hopefully want to sleep with you.

If you do all that and you still are not getting some ass by the end of the date then this is the ultimate form of AFC supplicating. (I was guilty of doing that myself back in the AFC days.....)
 

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omfgbbq...?

i agree, please enlighten those who do not speak like 13 year old girls.
 

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Enlightenment:

It's kind of a joke on message boards because people use so many acronyms. Just a joke.

OMGWTFBBQ!!!!111!!1oneone!!!11exclamationpoint


Don't post on many boards, huh?
 
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