You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
feelingloved said:Too much 3 & 6 will age you quicker...
The above quote is incorrect.Omega 3&6 should be in equal quantities
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I know, what I'm getting at, is that I don't really know if I'm experiencing any of its good effects yet, which is why now I'm at 20g a day (was around 15 before).Warboss Alex said:increase the dose and see...
this has been covered many times on here.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Correction:feelingloved said:3 & 6 oxidize easily, thus accelerate aging. they are essential however.
Higher fat intake correlates to higher testosterone, among other benefits, which is why I recommend extra 9.
I consider soy to be poison.
You likely get quite a bit of omega-6 from western diet, basically anything that has vegetable oil, or any thing other than free range meat (as most corn feed animals, accumulate greater omega 6 to 3 ratio intramuscularly, while wild-game has that 1:1 ratio).Zerix said:I currently take in between 15-20g of fish oil a day. I was wondering, how crucial is it to get in your omega 6 and 9 though, are they important, should I worry about them?
there is an advantage to taking fish oil with every meal as regards insulin output, but you can take it all at once as well as if you like. just take it somehow!Zerix said:Wait, so I really only count the grams from EPA/DHA ?
Another last question that's been on my mind. Is it more effective spreading out the dosage throughout the day, or doesnt even matter if I take like 10g morning then just 10g later on?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah I know of this. A bit too expensive though. And I don't wanna get in just a few grams a day, more.feelingloved said:krill oil is probably best. I haven't tried it. I've used flax & hemp mostly.
www.mercola.com is a good resource.
There are huge differences between the quality of fish oil from brand to brand. You preferably want a fish oil that is high in EPA/DHA, free of contaminants and protected from oxidation. Brands that fulfill these criteria and are affordable: Carlson's Liquid/Capsules and NOW Fish Oil Liquid. Twinlab stuff is probably less pure but it's cheaper.Zerix said:Another question I have actually, I don't think it has been answered yet (dunno):
Is one type of fish oil superior to another or are all the same? The ingredient list on mine shows "Fish Oil (Anchovies & Sardines)"
I take Health From The Sea PFO (Pure Fish Oil), liquid.simon said:There are huge differences between the quality of fish oil from brand to brand. You preferably want a fish oil that is high in EPA/DHA, free of contaminants and protected from oxidation. Brands that fulfill these criteria and are affordable: Carlson's Liquid/Capsules and NOW Fish Oil Liquid. Twinlab stuff is probably less pure but it's cheaper.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.