"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Olivia Munn talks about the dude she loved that didnt want her...

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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They were already dating, and he made her feel like crap. Other than that I don't see what was accomplished.
 

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Truth be know, the guy still probably has her at his beckon call. The abundance mentality and ability to walk away and be perfectly fine with it are 2 things that will wreck a woman's mojo and leave her chasing for months, even years.
I will bet if he called her and wanted to see her tonight for dinner and sex, she would jump all over it (no pun intended).

It doesnt matter that she is a famous actress. She is still a woman and they are all programmed the same.
 

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I think it's funny that Jamie Foxx used the opportunity to swoop in there and play Captain Save-a-Ho. Jamie Foxx is often mentioned as a player in Hollywood PUA circles. Sounds like he might have got put in the friend zone, but I'm sure there's a lot of networking going on in Hollywood. Having a friend like Olivia Munn can probably be a big advantage in the movie biz, social proof biz, or dating her hot friends biz.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I think it's funny that Jamie Foxx used the opportunity to swoop in there and play Captain Save-a-Ho. Jamie Foxx is often mentioned as a player in Hollywood PUA circles. Sounds like he might have got put in the friend zone, but I'm sure there's a lot of networking going on in Hollywood. Having a friend like Olivia Munn can probably be a big advantage in the movie biz, social proof biz, or dating her hot friends biz.
From the sound of it, this was likely before Munn became famous
 

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From the sound of it, this was likely before Munn became famous
Good point. The article mentions her and Foxx being romantically linked in 2010 (mistakenly, supposedly). Munn started hosting Attack of the Show on the G4 channel in 2006, which is where I first remember seeing her. She probably was a very minor celebrity at best at the time this happened.

Still, shows how Foxx is/was definitely a "player in the game". I will say that picture of Munn in the article is terrible though.
 
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