"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So did you search for and read the many threads that exist on the subject before posting?

Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
 

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Moved to Mommy Issues sub-forum.

Just kidding. Hey, if they pass the boner test, good for you. Wrap it before you tap it and dont give them exclusivity, recreational use only.
 

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Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
What do you mean by 'older'?

An older woman can be fun if you're 20 and she's 30. Not so much if you're 40 and she's 50+ or whatever.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why would any "Mature Man" be interested in a woman older than himself? Part of the privilege of being a "Mature Man" (typically 30+) is being attractive to younger woman.

A 46 year old man considering women who are 50-59 reeks of desperation.

Also, most women's white collar public or private sector jobs are bullshiit. It's mostly irrelevant to her sexual market value, which is mostly looks-based.

Most women after menopause aren't even that horny. There are late 30s to mid 40s women who are pre-menopause who are still horny (think Last Call at a bar) but after menopause, it's not the same.
 

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Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
I’m 65. The women I’ve been with who were in their 30s 40s and 50s have been incredibly sexual. They couldn’t get enough.

-Augustus-
 

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Agree with AA above.
I'm of the age where an 'older' woman for most here, is a younger woman to me...
I routinely date women in their 40s, and have also found that they're generally very sexual - Pregnancy is no longer a worry, and they tend to have a 'no-bull****' mindset where they just want to get on with it, with a minimum of wasting time playing games.
 

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In my experience older women (27+) tend to be more desperate, more horny, more LTR oriented, and yet simultaneously more delusional, entitled, and bitter. They're a mess, and I tend to avoid them unless they're exceptional.

On another note I find it funny one of the shaming tactics women use when they see an older man with a younger women "he's only with her because he can't date women his own age" :rofl: as if implying older women are harder catches.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is she menopausal? Women who no longer have to worry about getting pregnant tend to become more sexual,
Between the pill and a condom, why would a pre menopausal woman worry about getting pregnant? :rolleyes:
They don't worry about slvt-shaming anymore either, so they also tend to be more adventurous (like kinky stuff, sex outdoors, et cetera).
That sounds like complete BS coming from a guy who binged on mature porn. It makes as much sense as saying a man over 45yrs old doesn't care what society and people who know him think of him anymore so he'll act like a carefree, dumb teenager.

In my experience older women (27+)
OP is talking about a 56yrs old woman. :D
 

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Between the pill and a condom, why would a pre menopausal woman worry about getting pregnant? :rolleyes:

That sounds like complete BS coming from a guy who binged on mature porn. It makes as much sense as saying a man over 45yrs old doesn't care what society and people who know him think of him anymore so he'll act like a carefree, dumb teenager.


OP is talking about a 56yrs old woman. :D
If I was 45 I would rather go the rest of my life single than date a 55+ year old. Not worth it.
 

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A 27 year old woman is not “too old”. I think most guys posting at these forums are teenagers and honestly when I was a teenager I had better knowledge about women. A lot of you must have learned most of what you are saying from online forums, and you parrot the same things forums like these told you.

Also, you are not a “mature man” until 35 years old, minimum. And you are not “older” at 25 years old. At 25 years old you are just a grown up boy, not a “Man” yet.
 

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When I been with a 10-20+ year older woman and she was so eager to please in bed to keep me around. It only ended (after she tried to break up 5 times before the last one) because she couldn’t handle that I wasn’t monogamous
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The perception of age flips at 30. Screw a girl in her 30’s when you’re in your 20’s for a massive ego boost…. Then screw one in her 20’s when you’re in your 30’s and 40’s for the same reason.
 

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I want to double down on this

There is a lot of work to do here with these young guys. These younger guys have a very real deficiency.

It is no mystery why I get young 20 something’s probably easier than they do.
 

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A 27 year old woman is not “too old”. I think most guys posting at these forums are teenagers and honestly when I was a teenager I had better knowledge about women. A lot of you must have learned most of what you are saying from online forums, and you parrot the same things forums like these told you.

Also, you are not a “mature man” until 35 years old, minimum. And you are not “older” at 25 years old. At 25 years old you are just a grown up boy, not a “Man” yet.
I am close to mid 30s

I said what I said based on my own experience. Most women over 27-28 are miserable creatures and rarely attractive compared to a 20 year old. You sound a bit triggered, why is that?
 

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My experiences have been good...they don't play games, they love sex, are used to guys who need Viagra to perform and even then likely bust a nut in 2 minutes and are out of shape, and will basically let you do anything in the bedroom.
 

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I am close to mid 30s

I said what I said based on my own experience. Most women over 27-28 are miserable creatures and rarely attractive compared to a 20 year old. You sound a bit triggered, why is that?
I am not triggered, but I do see a deficiency here that others are not catching onto themselves.
It is so vast that I cannot even approach it with just one big post. Not even kidding: I am not making it up.
The younger guys here have missed something.

Honestly in all my years, since a toddler I have screwed around with every age range as I grew up.
I have had romances in my 30’s with babes in their teens to 60’s.
You younger kids are immature about females and intimacy, Just saying: be more real.

When you come in here blasting ages there is nothing suave about it.
Some of you guys are repellents of good fortunes.
Some of you significantly lack wisdom about females.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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