"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Older Women

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Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So did you search for and read the many threads that exist on the subject before posting?

Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
 

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Moved to Mommy Issues sub-forum.

Just kidding. Hey, if they pass the boner test, good for you. Wrap it before you tap it and dont give them exclusivity, recreational use only.
 

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Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
What do you mean by 'older'?

An older woman can be fun if you're 20 and she's 30. Not so much if you're 40 and she's 50+ or whatever.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why would any "Mature Man" be interested in a woman older than himself? Part of the privilege of being a "Mature Man" (typically 30+) is being attractive to younger woman.

A 46 year old man considering women who are 50-59 reeks of desperation.

Also, most women's white collar public or private sector jobs are bullshiit. It's mostly irrelevant to her sexual market value, which is mostly looks-based.

Most women after menopause aren't even that horny. There are late 30s to mid 40s women who are pre-menopause who are still horny (think Last Call at a bar) but after menopause, it's not the same.
 

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Forgive me, I'm sure that there have been many numerous threads on this topic, however...

Can you please tell me your experiences with older women?

I've made a match on OLD, with a Woman who it ten years older... she is actually attractive for her age, and she seems quite keen, and has mentioned physicality. Married once before, no kids. Works in Government like me, so would have a good wage.

Curious, have any of you guys experienced women who are still horny that are older?
I’m 65. The women I’ve been with who were in their 30s 40s and 50s have been incredibly sexual. They couldn’t get enough.

-Augustus-
 

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Agree with AA above.
I'm of the age where an 'older' woman for most here, is a younger woman to me...
I routinely date women in their 40s, and have also found that they're generally very sexual - Pregnancy is no longer a worry, and they tend to have a 'no-bull****' mindset where they just want to get on with it, with a minimum of wasting time playing games.
 

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In my experience older women (27+) tend to be more desperate, more horny, more LTR oriented, and yet simultaneously more delusional, entitled, and bitter. They're a mess, and I tend to avoid them unless they're exceptional.

On another note I find it funny one of the shaming tactics women use when they see an older man with a younger women "he's only with her because he can't date women his own age" :rofl: as if implying older women are harder catches.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is she menopausal? Women who no longer have to worry about getting pregnant tend to become more sexual,
Between the pill and a condom, why would a pre menopausal woman worry about getting pregnant? :rolleyes:
They don't worry about slvt-shaming anymore either, so they also tend to be more adventurous (like kinky stuff, sex outdoors, et cetera).
That sounds like complete BS coming from a guy who binged on mature porn. It makes as much sense as saying a man over 45yrs old doesn't care what society and people who know him think of him anymore so he'll act like a carefree, dumb teenager.

In my experience older women (27+)
OP is talking about a 56yrs old woman. :D
 

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Between the pill and a condom, why would a pre menopausal woman worry about getting pregnant? :rolleyes:

That sounds like complete BS coming from a guy who binged on mature porn. It makes as much sense as saying a man over 45yrs old doesn't care what society and people who know him think of him anymore so he'll act like a carefree, dumb teenager.


OP is talking about a 56yrs old woman. :D
If I was 45 I would rather go the rest of my life single than date a 55+ year old. Not worth it.
 

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A 27 year old woman is not “too old”. I think most guys posting at these forums are teenagers and honestly when I was a teenager I had better knowledge about women. A lot of you must have learned most of what you are saying from online forums, and you parrot the same things forums like these told you.

Also, you are not a “mature man” until 35 years old, minimum. And you are not “older” at 25 years old. At 25 years old you are just a grown up boy, not a “Man” yet.
 

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When I been with a 10-20+ year older woman and she was so eager to please in bed to keep me around. It only ended (after she tried to break up 5 times before the last one) because she couldn’t handle that I wasn’t monogamous
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The perception of age flips at 30. Screw a girl in her 30’s when you’re in your 20’s for a massive ego boost…. Then screw one in her 20’s when you’re in your 30’s and 40’s for the same reason.
 

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I want to double down on this

There is a lot of work to do here with these young guys. These younger guys have a very real deficiency.

It is no mystery why I get young 20 something’s probably easier than they do.
 

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A 27 year old woman is not “too old”. I think most guys posting at these forums are teenagers and honestly when I was a teenager I had better knowledge about women. A lot of you must have learned most of what you are saying from online forums, and you parrot the same things forums like these told you.

Also, you are not a “mature man” until 35 years old, minimum. And you are not “older” at 25 years old. At 25 years old you are just a grown up boy, not a “Man” yet.
I am close to mid 30s

I said what I said based on my own experience. Most women over 27-28 are miserable creatures and rarely attractive compared to a 20 year old. You sound a bit triggered, why is that?
 

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My experiences have been good...they don't play games, they love sex, are used to guys who need Viagra to perform and even then likely bust a nut in 2 minutes and are out of shape, and will basically let you do anything in the bedroom.
 

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I am close to mid 30s

I said what I said based on my own experience. Most women over 27-28 are miserable creatures and rarely attractive compared to a 20 year old. You sound a bit triggered, why is that?
I am not triggered, but I do see a deficiency here that others are not catching onto themselves.
It is so vast that I cannot even approach it with just one big post. Not even kidding: I am not making it up.
The younger guys here have missed something.

Honestly in all my years, since a toddler I have screwed around with every age range as I grew up.
I have had romances in my 30’s with babes in their teens to 60’s.
You younger kids are immature about females and intimacy, Just saying: be more real.

When you come in here blasting ages there is nothing suave about it.
Some of you guys are repellents of good fortunes.
Some of you significantly lack wisdom about females.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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