ok check htis out,,, i went to get my haircut the other day and the lady who did it was hot- she was about 22-24 or somethin- she hinted that she thought i was cute and when i told her i was 16 she was surprised- i defiantley didnt use any skills on her i just felt kinda weird i guess like i do whenever barbers try to talk to me- anyway is there anyway to get an older woman liket his to cave or not- or should i even try-
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
STFU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no , she might have thought you were a cute customer but thats how she makes her money, by cutting hair for customers.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
I think American women (if you can call them women) are so hormonally screwed up (birthcontrol, meds, too much food, chemicals in the food, etc.) that many like young guys. So, you probably should have given her your number. She might have hooked up with you. Just remember that almost half of American women her age have STDs. :cheer: Gotta love them.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
They collect them like pokemon.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
And do you think you can speak the same language as a non-American person? Fool, just learn how to filter out the ones you don't want and it's easy.