ok check htis out,,, i went to get my haircut the other day and the lady who did it was hot- she was about 22-24 or somethin- she hinted that she thought i was cute and when i told her i was 16 she was surprised- i defiantley didnt use any skills on her i just felt kinda weird i guess like i do whenever barbers try to talk to me- anyway is there anyway to get an older woman liket his to cave or not- or should i even try-
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
STFU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no , she might have thought you were a cute customer but thats how she makes her money, by cutting hair for customers.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
I think American women (if you can call them women) are so hormonally screwed up (birthcontrol, meds, too much food, chemicals in the food, etc.) that many like young guys. So, you probably should have given her your number. She might have hooked up with you. Just remember that almost half of American women her age have STDs. :cheer: Gotta love them.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
They collect them like pokemon.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
And do you think you can speak the same language as a non-American person? Fool, just learn how to filter out the ones you don't want and it's easy.