"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

older women- please read

requested

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2005
Messages
71
Reaction score
1
ok check htis out,,, i went to get my haircut the other day and the lady who did it was hot- she was about 22-24 or somethin- she hinted that she thought i was cute and when i told her i was 16 she was surprised- i defiantley didnt use any skills on her i just felt kinda weird i guess like i do whenever barbers try to talk to me- anyway is there anyway to get an older woman liket his to cave or not- or should i even try-
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,256
Reaction score
236
Age
49
Location
at our house
no , she might have thought you were a cute customer but thats how she makes her money, by cutting hair for customers.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
 

LittleElf

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 6, 2005
Messages
41
Reaction score
1
I think American women (if you can call them women) are so hormonally screwed up (birthcontrol, meds, too much food, chemicals in the food, etc.) that many like young guys. So, you probably should have given her your number. She might have hooked up with you. Just remember that almost half of American women her age have STDs. :cheer: Gotta love them.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

DonJuanMonk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 20, 2005
Messages
826
Reaction score
0
Location
CA
Originally posted by LittleElf
I think American women (if you can call them women) are so hormonally screwed up (birthcontrol, meds, too much food, chemicals in the food, etc.) that many like young guys. So, you probably should have given her your number. She might have hooked up with you. Just remember that almost half of American women her age have STDs. :cheer: Gotta love them.
And do you think you can speak the same language as a non-American person? Fool, just learn how to filter out the ones you don't want and it's easy.
 
Top