ok check htis out,,, i went to get my haircut the other day and the lady who did it was hot- she was about 22-24 or somethin- she hinted that she thought i was cute and when i told her i was 16 she was surprised- i defiantley didnt use any skills on her i just felt kinda weird i guess like i do whenever barbers try to talk to me- anyway is there anyway to get an older woman liket his to cave or not- or should i even try-
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
older women- please read
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
STFU.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
no , she might have thought you were a cute customer but thats how she makes her money, by cutting hair for customers.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
if she wasnt extra nice, you wouldnt remember to go back there and get your hair cut.
I think American women (if you can call them women) are so hormonally screwed up (birthcontrol, meds, too much food, chemicals in the food, etc.) that many like young guys. So, you probably should have given her your number. She might have hooked up with you. Just remember that almost half of American women her age have STDs. :cheer: Gotta love them.
thederekeffect1
Master Don Juan
They collect them like pokemon.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
DonJuanMonk
Master Don Juan
And do you think you can speak the same language as a non-American person? Fool, just learn how to filter out the ones you don't want and it's easy.