"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Apparently the unseemly reaction to romance of Beckinsale, Davidson casts society in bad light.

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/sta...sale-davidson-casts-society-in-bad-light.html

Davidson goes from a hot 25 year old famous singer to a 45 year old washed up divorced actress who is mother of one. She is past her prime in looks by about 18 years and will be menopausal is less than 60 months.

It’s not like his condition is bad. He has money, is tall, decent look, on a famous tv show. He is not beta bucking because she has money. So what’s going on here? He can’t find anyone else? Desparate for love? Desparate for sex? She is going to open doors for him in Hollywood at 45+? He needs to be shown the light by Sosuave?

Curious to hear thoughts.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Apparently the unseemly reaction to romance of Beckinsale, Davidson casts society in bad light.

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/sta...sale-davidson-casts-society-in-bad-light.html

Davidson goes from a hot 25 year old famous singer to a 45 year old washed up divorced actress who is mother of one. She is past her prime in looks by about 18 years and will be menopausal is less than 60 months.

It’s not like his condition is bad. He has money, is tall, decent look, on a famous tv show. He is not beta bucking because she has money. So what’s going on here? He can’t find anyone else? Desparate for love? Desparate for sex? She is going to open doors for him in Hollywood at 45+? He needs to be shown the light by Sosuave?

Curious to hear thoughts.
Dude is not decent looking he's hideous
 

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I agree he’s below average in looks.

He’s not marrying or breeding her so what’s the problem? She’s a hot famous 45yo in Hollywood I would date her too for a year or two.
 

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Apparently the unseemly reaction to romance of Beckinsale, Davidson casts society in bad light.

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/sta...sale-davidson-casts-society-in-bad-light.html

Davidson goes from a hot 25 year old famous singer to a 45 year old washed up divorced actress who is mother of one. She is past her prime in looks by about 18 years and will be menopausal is less than 60 months.

It’s not like his condition is bad. He has money, is tall, decent look, on a famous tv show. He is not beta bucking because she has money. So what’s going on here? He can’t find anyone else? Desparate for love? Desparate for sex? She is going to open doors for him in Hollywood at 45+? He needs to be shown the light by Sosuave?

Curious to hear thoughts.
you must be smoking crack. She's gorgeous, even at 45 and he's hideous


this is more a question of why she would date a man a 100 points below her league
 

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you must be smoking crack. She's gorgeous, even at 45 and he's hideous


this is more a question of why she would date a man a 100 points below her league
cause hes a rapper or popular.

and he isnt that ugly, she looks like any lady with make up would look
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cause hes a rapper or popular.

and he isnt that ugly, she looks like any lady with make up would look
one of the most beautiful women in the world, even at 45







stop the f*cking nonsense. You would cut your arm off to have a wife who was that good looking at 45 and so would I
 

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one of the most beautiful women in the world, even at 45







stop the f*cking nonsense. You would cut your arm off to have a wife who was that good looking at 45 and so would I

looks like a tranny to me



stop putting older postwall women on pedestal
 

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looks like a tranny to me



stop putting older postwall women on pedestal

your e-standards are breathtaking. Kate has been one of the most beautiful women in the world for a while now






even with all that makeup on, you can tell she has beautiful near flawless skin
 

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your e-standards are breathtaking. Kate has been one of the most beautiful women in the world for a while now






even with all that makeup on, you can tell she has beautiful near flawless skin

does anyone care tbh?

maybe thats why u cant find love
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Could be a move to get attention, she scores point from older women and he gets paid to help her or is promised some work in the near future.
 
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