"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Apparently the unseemly reaction to romance of Beckinsale, Davidson casts society in bad light.

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/sta...sale-davidson-casts-society-in-bad-light.html

Davidson goes from a hot 25 year old famous singer to a 45 year old washed up divorced actress who is mother of one. She is past her prime in looks by about 18 years and will be menopausal is less than 60 months.

It’s not like his condition is bad. He has money, is tall, decent look, on a famous tv show. He is not beta bucking because she has money. So what’s going on here? He can’t find anyone else? Desparate for love? Desparate for sex? She is going to open doors for him in Hollywood at 45+? He needs to be shown the light by Sosuave?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Trump said:
Apparently the unseemly reaction to romance of Beckinsale, Davidson casts society in bad light.

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/sta...sale-davidson-casts-society-in-bad-light.html

Davidson goes from a hot 25 year old famous singer to a 45 year old washed up divorced actress who is mother of one. She is past her prime in looks by about 18 years and will be menopausal is less than 60 months.

It’s not like his condition is bad. He has money, is tall, decent look, on a famous tv show. He is not beta bucking because she has money. So what’s going on here? He can’t find anyone else? Desparate for love? Desparate for sex? She is going to open doors for him in Hollywood at 45+? He needs to be shown the light by Sosuave?

Curious to hear thoughts.
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Dude is not decent looking he's hideous
 
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I agree he’s below average in looks.

He’s not marrying or breeding her so what’s the problem? She’s a hot famous 45yo in Hollywood I would date her too for a year or two.
 
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Trump said:
Apparently the unseemly reaction to romance of Beckinsale, Davidson casts society in bad light.

https://www.thestar.com/opinion/sta...sale-davidson-casts-society-in-bad-light.html

Davidson goes from a hot 25 year old famous singer to a 45 year old washed up divorced actress who is mother of one. She is past her prime in looks by about 18 years and will be menopausal is less than 60 months.

It’s not like his condition is bad. He has money, is tall, decent look, on a famous tv show. He is not beta bucking because she has money. So what’s going on here? He can’t find anyone else? Desparate for love? Desparate for sex? She is going to open doors for him in Hollywood at 45+? He needs to be shown the light by Sosuave?

Curious to hear thoughts.
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you must be smoking crack. She's gorgeous, even at 45 and he's hideous


this is more a question of why she would date a man a 100 points below her league
 
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bigdave17 said:
you must be smoking crack. She's gorgeous, even at 45 and he's hideous


this is more a question of why she would date a man a 100 points below her league
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cause hes a rapper or popular.

and he isnt that ugly, she looks like any lady with make up would look
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cause hes a rapper or popular.

and he isnt that ugly, she looks like any lady with make up would look
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one of the most beautiful women in the world, even at 45







stop the f*cking nonsense. You would cut your arm off to have a wife who was that good looking at 45 and so would I
 
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one of the most beautiful women in the world, even at 45







stop the f*cking nonsense. You would cut your arm off to have a wife who was that good looking at 45 and so would I
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looks like a tranny to me



stop putting older postwall women on pedestal
 
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looks like a tranny to me



stop putting older postwall women on pedestal
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your e-standards are breathtaking. Kate has been one of the most beautiful women in the world for a while now






even with all that makeup on, you can tell she has beautiful near flawless skin
 
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your e-standards are breathtaking. Kate has been one of the most beautiful women in the world for a while now






even with all that makeup on, you can tell she has beautiful near flawless skin
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does anyone care tbh?

maybe thats why u cant find love
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could be a move to get attention, she scores point from older women and he gets paid to help her or is promised some work in the near future.
 
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