"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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older women are easier?

MackJr

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I noticed that I can flirt with and even seduce older women (35+) much more easily than the young women. No, I know this isn't earth shattering. They're at a point where they get less attention, so they respond positively to being hit on. You can even talk to them like real people, whereas everythign has to be a game with young women.

What's your cutoff line for how young you're willing to deal with?

30? 25? the age of majority?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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No Escape

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Originally posted by MackJr
I noticed that I can flirt with and even seduce older women (35+) much more easily than the young women. No, I know this isn't earth shattering. They're at a point where they get less attention, so they respond positively to being hit on. You can even talk to them like real people, whereas everythign has to be a game with young women.

What's your cutoff line for how young you're willing to deal with?

30? 25? the age of majority?
I'll say older women are "easier" to a point. I wouldn't say they're much easier though. Women are women whether 45 or 25. There may be a little personality difference, but they're all still the same and operate the same way.

My cutoff line is 22. Anything below, I'm not into. That's just me though. It all ties into maturity and how much experience in the bedroom they have.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'll flirt with any woman but it would be difficult for me to date anyone younger than 30. I'd actually be more comfortable if she was 32 if we were considering a LTR.
 
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