"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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older women are easier?

MackJr

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I noticed that I can flirt with and even seduce older women (35+) much more easily than the young women. No, I know this isn't earth shattering. They're at a point where they get less attention, so they respond positively to being hit on. You can even talk to them like real people, whereas everythign has to be a game with young women.

What's your cutoff line for how young you're willing to deal with?

30? 25? the age of majority?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No Escape

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Originally posted by MackJr
I noticed that I can flirt with and even seduce older women (35+) much more easily than the young women. No, I know this isn't earth shattering. They're at a point where they get less attention, so they respond positively to being hit on. You can even talk to them like real people, whereas everythign has to be a game with young women.

What's your cutoff line for how young you're willing to deal with?

30? 25? the age of majority?
I'll say older women are "easier" to a point. I wouldn't say they're much easier though. Women are women whether 45 or 25. There may be a little personality difference, but they're all still the same and operate the same way.

My cutoff line is 22. Anything below, I'm not into. That's just me though. It all ties into maturity and how much experience in the bedroom they have.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I'll flirt with any woman but it would be difficult for me to date anyone younger than 30. I'd actually be more comfortable if she was 32 if we were considering a LTR.
 
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