"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Black_Italian

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There is this new girl in my TAFE class (TAFE is kind of like school but you learn to do a specific job) im doing private investigator. The point is i dont know what to do to pick her up she is liek 32 years old and Italian and she is HOT.

Now dont get me wrong i can pickup like Brad Pitt and a tupaware party but i dont have much expirance with older women. You guys got any tips on older women. Or should i use my normal game?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I got the exact same question posted in another thread with this exact same title, havent gotten any advice yet...
 

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The usual advice is to be mature, act like if you were 40, but/or, at the same time be youthful so that you take her back to her youth.

She's just another woman. Approach her, find out about her, and she will give you clues about what she is looking for. Meanwhile, remain misterious so that she creates an image of you, of that man she wants you to be. Once she gives you those hints of who she wants you to be (this won't happen in 10 minutes, it will probably happen until the third date).. become that man.

THIS advice is given, supposing that you want her, specifically. Now, if you want women to want you... just be the best. And filter out those that you don't like/fit you.

Apply this technique to ALL women that you specificaly like, not just mature.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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