"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is this new girl in my TAFE class (TAFE is kind of like school but you learn to do a specific job) im doing private investigator. The point is i dont know what to do to pick her up she is liek 32 years old and Italian and she is HOT.

Now dont get me wrong i can pickup like Brad Pitt and a tupaware party but i dont have much expirance with older women. You guys got any tips on older women. Or should i use my normal game?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got the exact same question posted in another thread with this exact same title, havent gotten any advice yet...
 
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The usual advice is to be mature, act like if you were 40, but/or, at the same time be youthful so that you take her back to her youth.

She's just another woman. Approach her, find out about her, and she will give you clues about what she is looking for. Meanwhile, remain misterious so that she creates an image of you, of that man she wants you to be. Once she gives you those hints of who she wants you to be (this won't happen in 10 minutes, it will probably happen until the third date).. become that man.

THIS advice is given, supposing that you want her, specifically. Now, if you want women to want you... just be the best. And filter out those that you don't like/fit you.

Apply this technique to ALL women that you specificaly like, not just mature.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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