"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Black_Italian

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There is this new girl in my TAFE class (TAFE is kind of like school but you learn to do a specific job) im doing private investigator. The point is i dont know what to do to pick her up she is liek 32 years old and Italian and she is HOT.

Now dont get me wrong i can pickup like Brad Pitt and a tupaware party but i dont have much expirance with older women. You guys got any tips on older women. Or should i use my normal game?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got the exact same question posted in another thread with this exact same title, havent gotten any advice yet...
 

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The usual advice is to be mature, act like if you were 40, but/or, at the same time be youthful so that you take her back to her youth.

She's just another woman. Approach her, find out about her, and she will give you clues about what she is looking for. Meanwhile, remain misterious so that she creates an image of you, of that man she wants you to be. Once she gives you those hints of who she wants you to be (this won't happen in 10 minutes, it will probably happen until the third date).. become that man.

THIS advice is given, supposing that you want her, specifically. Now, if you want women to want you... just be the best. And filter out those that you don't like/fit you.

Apply this technique to ALL women that you specificaly like, not just mature.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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