"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Black_Italian

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There is this new girl in my TAFE class (TAFE is kind of like school but you learn to do a specific job) im doing private investigator. The point is i dont know what to do to pick her up she is liek 32 years old and Italian and she is HOT.

Now dont get me wrong i can pickup like Brad Pitt and a tupaware party but i dont have much expirance with older women. You guys got any tips on older women. Or should i use my normal game?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got the exact same question posted in another thread with this exact same title, havent gotten any advice yet...
 

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The usual advice is to be mature, act like if you were 40, but/or, at the same time be youthful so that you take her back to her youth.

She's just another woman. Approach her, find out about her, and she will give you clues about what she is looking for. Meanwhile, remain misterious so that she creates an image of you, of that man she wants you to be. Once she gives you those hints of who she wants you to be (this won't happen in 10 minutes, it will probably happen until the third date).. become that man.

THIS advice is given, supposing that you want her, specifically. Now, if you want women to want you... just be the best. And filter out those that you don't like/fit you.

Apply this technique to ALL women that you specificaly like, not just mature.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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