To get to the point im 19 she is 30. I am working she has her own business and a custom benz. Sooner or later she is going to want to fVck but she wants me to work for her as her receptionist . How do I milk her for at least 10 dollars and hour for 5 dollars and hour work? Will this relationship work? How do i act mature around her?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Older Woman
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
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You say "I want $10/hour". What else are you going to do - say "Missus, missus! I be your cabana boy, you pay me $10/hour I give you great pleasure missus!" 
Don't worry about acting mature; she just wants to sleep with you - so don't take it as anything more... as for whether the relationship will work, why would you want a relationship with someone practically twice your age to work in the first place? Let her be your sugar momma, and keep your eyes out for any people your age you can date...
Don't worry about acting mature; she just wants to sleep with you - so don't take it as anything more... as for whether the relationship will work, why would you want a relationship with someone practically twice your age to work in the first place? Let her be your sugar momma, and keep your eyes out for any people your age you can date...Tyrone Biggums
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How do you know she wants to f**k?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Please read the bible, fkkn sakes.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Read every single article in there before you post again. Thanks.
*smacks head* http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/ You see that?
Read every single article in there before you post again. Thanks.
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