PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Can you turn an older single mother into a f*ck buddy? It's not like I woul have a relationship with a 40 year old with 3 kids.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Older single mothers as f*ck buddies?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Masculinity
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You definitely could, but take a look at the "15 reasons not to date single moms" thread. It'll give you an idea of what you're in for(although a good number will not apply since you only wanna be a phuck buddy.
KarmaSutra
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That's the ONLY thing they're to be used for.
Never a substitute Mother.
Never a substitute Mother.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Ok, and she also works at the same place as me. Thats like 200 reasons not to do it. My penis says "do it", my brain says Dont. Tough call.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MartyMcFly
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Your brain is probably right. In my opinion, I'd just keep away and move on
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I was just about to start a thread called "the good things about single moms" then I saw this
I have 2 moms I'm seeing. One of them told me flat out all she wants is to get f*cked,nothing more...the other one can't find baby sitters so I'm goin to her place for the 1st time tonight. I dnt mind that...as long as her kid stays asleep lol
I think all in all they're great!!!
Much better than a young needy broad! First of all their priorities are their kids so they're always busy...secondly when they do have free time they're so bored, lonely & horny it doesn't take much effort to bang them.
So I say yea they make extremely fine fu*k buddies for sure
I have 2 moms I'm seeing. One of them told me flat out all she wants is to get f*cked,nothing more...the other one can't find baby sitters so I'm goin to her place for the 1st time tonight. I dnt mind that...as long as her kid stays asleep lol
I think all in all they're great!!!
Much better than a young needy broad! First of all their priorities are their kids so they're always busy...secondly when they do have free time they're so bored, lonely & horny it doesn't take much effort to bang them.
So I say yea they make extremely fine fu*k buddies for sure
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
At my age, women with kids are sort of a given. Things always start out real well, but the dramas catch up soon enough. I've always liked them a lot, but they only turn out to be fnck buddies. They don't last very long.