PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Can you turn an older single mother into a f*ck buddy? It's not like I woul have a relationship with a 40 year old with 3 kids.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Older single mothers as f*ck buddies?
- Thread starter PapiChulo
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Masculinity
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You definitely could, but take a look at the "15 reasons not to date single moms" thread. It'll give you an idea of what you're in for(although a good number will not apply since you only wanna be a phuck buddy.
KarmaSutra
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That's the ONLY thing they're to be used for.
Never a substitute Mother.
Never a substitute Mother.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Ok, and she also works at the same place as me. Thats like 200 reasons not to do it. My penis says "do it", my brain says Dont. Tough call.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
MartyMcFly
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Your brain is probably right. In my opinion, I'd just keep away and move on
NoCommitments
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I was just about to start a thread called "the good things about single moms" then I saw this
I have 2 moms I'm seeing. One of them told me flat out all she wants is to get f*cked,nothing more...the other one can't find baby sitters so I'm goin to her place for the 1st time tonight. I dnt mind that...as long as her kid stays asleep lol
I think all in all they're great!!!
Much better than a young needy broad! First of all their priorities are their kids so they're always busy...secondly when they do have free time they're so bored, lonely & horny it doesn't take much effort to bang them.
So I say yea they make extremely fine fu*k buddies for sure
I have 2 moms I'm seeing. One of them told me flat out all she wants is to get f*cked,nothing more...the other one can't find baby sitters so I'm goin to her place for the 1st time tonight. I dnt mind that...as long as her kid stays asleep lol
I think all in all they're great!!!
Much better than a young needy broad! First of all their priorities are their kids so they're always busy...secondly when they do have free time they're so bored, lonely & horny it doesn't take much effort to bang them.
So I say yea they make extremely fine fu*k buddies for sure
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
At my age, women with kids are sort of a given. Things always start out real well, but the dramas catch up soon enough. I've always liked them a lot, but they only turn out to be fnck buddies. They don't last very long.