PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Can you turn an older single mother into a f*ck buddy? It's not like I woul have a relationship with a 40 year old with 3 kids.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Older single mothers as f*ck buddies?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Masculinity
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You definitely could, but take a look at the "15 reasons not to date single moms" thread. It'll give you an idea of what you're in for(although a good number will not apply since you only wanna be a phuck buddy.
KarmaSutra
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That's the ONLY thing they're to be used for.
Never a substitute Mother.
Never a substitute Mother.
PapiChulo
Master Don Juan
Ok, and she also works at the same place as me. Thats like 200 reasons not to do it. My penis says "do it", my brain says Dont. Tough call.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MartyMcFly
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Your brain is probably right. In my opinion, I'd just keep away and move on
NoCommitments
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I was just about to start a thread called "the good things about single moms" then I saw this
I have 2 moms I'm seeing. One of them told me flat out all she wants is to get f*cked,nothing more...the other one can't find baby sitters so I'm goin to her place for the 1st time tonight. I dnt mind that...as long as her kid stays asleep lol
I think all in all they're great!!!
Much better than a young needy broad! First of all their priorities are their kids so they're always busy...secondly when they do have free time they're so bored, lonely & horny it doesn't take much effort to bang them.
So I say yea they make extremely fine fu*k buddies for sure
I have 2 moms I'm seeing. One of them told me flat out all she wants is to get f*cked,nothing more...the other one can't find baby sitters so I'm goin to her place for the 1st time tonight. I dnt mind that...as long as her kid stays asleep lol
I think all in all they're great!!!
Much better than a young needy broad! First of all their priorities are their kids so they're always busy...secondly when they do have free time they're so bored, lonely & horny it doesn't take much effort to bang them.
So I say yea they make extremely fine fu*k buddies for sure
bluenorther
Senior Don Juan
At my age, women with kids are sort of a given. Things always start out real well, but the dramas catch up soon enough. I've always liked them a lot, but they only turn out to be fnck buddies. They don't last very long.