"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oldder women????

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Hey guy's back for a little help with this one?

Now the thing is. Me 20 Her 31.
Backround: We train togther, Martial arts, Gymnastics and Weights. Oh she is also some what my personal trainer.
We fooled around one night after the bar, still talk all the time and hang out whenever we can.

Now is there any tips out there for hitting on oldder more matture women. She is very hot. Looks like she is 24 ish.
How can i work this and win out in the long run guys?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Perhaps the men in mature men could help ya out a little better than us.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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How does she seem different from a woman that's younger?
 
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Originally posted by returnofsoccerstar
Hey guy's back for a little help with this one?

Now the thing is. Me 20 Her 31.
Backround: We train togther, Martial arts, Gymnastics and Weights. Oh she is also some what my personal trainer.
We fooled around one night after the bar, still talk all the time and hang out whenever we can.

Now is there any tips out there for hitting on oldder more matture women. She is very hot. Looks like she is 24 ish.
How can i work this and win out in the long run guys?
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She's obviously attracted to you since you already "fooled around" (whatever that means, exactly). My advice would be to behave or do whatever you did "after the bar".
 
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How can you win this one? Stop thinking of her as an age. She's just a woman. If you're focused on the age difference, she'll focus there too. If you don't, she'll get past it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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