"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oldder women????

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returnofsoccerstar

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Hey guy's back for a little help with this one?

Now the thing is. Me 20 Her 31.
Backround: We train togther, Martial arts, Gymnastics and Weights. Oh she is also some what my personal trainer.
We fooled around one night after the bar, still talk all the time and hang out whenever we can.

Now is there any tips out there for hitting on oldder more matture women. She is very hot. Looks like she is 24 ish.
How can i work this and win out in the long run guys?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Perhaps the men in mature men could help ya out a little better than us.
 
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Francisco d'Anconia

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How does she seem different from a woman that's younger?
 
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Originally posted by returnofsoccerstar
Hey guy's back for a little help with this one?

Now the thing is. Me 20 Her 31.
Backround: We train togther, Martial arts, Gymnastics and Weights. Oh she is also some what my personal trainer.
We fooled around one night after the bar, still talk all the time and hang out whenever we can.

Now is there any tips out there for hitting on oldder more matture women. She is very hot. Looks like she is 24 ish.
How can i work this and win out in the long run guys?
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She's obviously attracted to you since you already "fooled around" (whatever that means, exactly). My advice would be to behave or do whatever you did "after the bar".
 
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How can you win this one? Stop thinking of her as an age. She's just a woman. If you're focused on the age difference, she'll focus there too. If you don't, she'll get past it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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