"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Old Woman talks about the true nature of women [YouTube]

derby1

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Funny you bring this up. I had a fwb for a time that, loooking back on things, I think she was either trying to groom me to become a revolutionary assassin or trying to figure out if I was one
Dont worry I was the same, the first time I was on the glue bro :rofl:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mattinzane

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Hi Zimbabwe,
Liked your observation "Guess Men are supposed to know what woman need. I suspect that this is the cause of the end of many relationships"...When things were rocky with Wife no two,I asked what her problem was,"Well if you don't know,it's not much good my telling you"was her response...Another time a similar request asking what she was looking for,brought the response'There's just got to be something more hasn't there?",I just replied "Why?"
it will never go well for you to ask a woman what her problem is, this will always end in a fight. You want to ask things like what do you need? how can I help? Women will usually not directly tell you what they need/want, most women have no clue about their own psychology and they don't even know what they need and really want.

This is why most people make the same mistakes over and over again, they don't understand themselves and are unwilling to take a hard look and realize what mistakes they make and why they make them. Your subconscious makes decisions for you that you may not even realize you are making. A lot of these things got rooted in our minds when we were children.

Pop Culture has been brainwashing the masses that you have to get a job, get married, have kids and live in the suburbs, so you will consume to keep the economy expanding and pay your taxes to the government.
 
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