Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you go?

  • It's a minor indiscretion. I'd go.

    Votes: 8 88.9%
  • Lacking attention to fundamental detail. I'd flake.

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • Total voters
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TheMonkeyKing

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Some bird I been chatting with online this week agreed that we meet on Saturday coming.

She text me first time today letting me know availability, number etc. The thing being she starts by saying 'Hi Matt...'. Matt is not TMK's given name; she clearly has me confused with one of her other prospects.

I am inclined to flake. Not a great start. Plus she doesn't seem terribly dynamic.

What would the audience do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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guru1000

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Eh, no biggie. I confuse chicks all the time--shamelessly. Even ask their name again after a month of seeing them--because I forgot, lol.

Just respond with, "Hey <Insert a different name>, look forward to seeing you Sat at 8pm ;)"
 

Lozboss

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I'd let it go for a first date.

After it becomes delete territory.

I'd also call her a different name- and if she flags you you say 'well I'm not Matt so I thought we were playing a game!" And be cheeky
 

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Ruler said:
Sh!t test. Act as if nothing happened.

Lozboss you made me lmao.

Sh!t test? :crackup:

She sent the text to the wrong guy. If she doesn't know who the fvck you are you're not that important to her. Neeeeeeeext!
 

GS750

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Could be a sh*t test, could be an accident, could be anything. Over-analyzing is for chicks. Just go and make her forget about "Matt". And don't bring it up. Say nothing.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Uropa

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Last of the Alphas said:
Welcome to the forum.

However, he should reply in the above manner. It's not like they're in a committed relationship.
Hey, thanks.

If he was an important prospect she would know his name. Sending him a text that was intended for "Matt" shows her low interest. I'd wait to see if her IL goes up before texting a date.
 

Bingo-Player

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id be tempted just to play along for a bit

text her back using a wrong name for her too see what happens

cant say anything like this has ever happend to me before but ive done it go girls plenty of times
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Thanks for the input lads. Decided to sack it off as not really in to it anyway. Gonna try banging a 110lb dancer with fake knockers instead :)
 
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