"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

OLD text

Would you go?

  • It's a minor indiscretion. I'd go.

    Votes: 8 88.9%
  • Lacking attention to fundamental detail. I'd flake.

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • Total voters
    9

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,327
Reaction score
1,419
Some bird I been chatting with online this week agreed that we meet on Saturday coming.

She text me first time today letting me know availability, number etc. The thing being she starts by saying 'Hi Matt...'. Matt is not TMK's given name; she clearly has me confused with one of her other prospects.

I am inclined to flake. Not a great start. Plus she doesn't seem terribly dynamic.

What would the audience do?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

guru1000

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 20, 2007
Messages
5,299
Reaction score
4,338
Eh, no biggie. I confuse chicks all the time--shamelessly. Even ask their name again after a month of seeing them--because I forgot, lol.

Just respond with, "Hey <Insert a different name>, look forward to seeing you Sat at 8pm ;)"
 

Lozboss

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 27, 2015
Messages
709
Reaction score
205
Location
London, UK
I'd let it go for a first date.

After it becomes delete territory.

I'd also call her a different name- and if she flags you you say 'well I'm not Matt so I thought we were playing a game!" And be cheeky
 

Uropa

New Member
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Ruler said:
Sh!t test. Act as if nothing happened.

Lozboss you made me lmao.

Sh!t test? :crackup:

She sent the text to the wrong guy. If she doesn't know who the fvck you are you're not that important to her. Neeeeeeeext!
 

GS750

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 28, 2013
Messages
1,561
Reaction score
187
Could be a sh*t test, could be an accident, could be anything. Over-analyzing is for chicks. Just go and make her forget about "Matt". And don't bring it up. Say nothing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Uropa

New Member
Joined
Sep 10, 2015
Messages
5
Reaction score
0
Last of the Alphas said:
Welcome to the forum.

However, he should reply in the above manner. It's not like they're in a committed relationship.
Hey, thanks.

If he was an important prospect she would know his name. Sending him a text that was intended for "Matt" shows her low interest. I'd wait to see if her IL goes up before texting a date.
 

Bingo-Player

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 10, 2014
Messages
3,639
Reaction score
4,367
Location
uk
id be tempted just to play along for a bit

text her back using a wrong name for her too see what happens

cant say anything like this has ever happend to me before but ive done it go girls plenty of times
 

TheMonkeyKing

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 20, 2014
Messages
2,327
Reaction score
1,419
Thanks for the input lads. Decided to sack it off as not really in to it anyway. Gonna try banging a 110lb dancer with fake knockers instead :)
 
Top