Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Would you go?

  • It's a minor indiscretion. I'd go.

    Votes: 8 88.9%
  • Lacking attention to fundamental detail. I'd flake.

    Votes: 1 11.1%

  • Total voters
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TheMonkeyKing

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Some bird I been chatting with online this week agreed that we meet on Saturday coming.

She text me first time today letting me know availability, number etc. The thing being she starts by saying 'Hi Matt...'. Matt is not TMK's given name; she clearly has me confused with one of her other prospects.

I am inclined to flake. Not a great start. Plus she doesn't seem terribly dynamic.

What would the audience do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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guru1000

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Eh, no biggie. I confuse chicks all the time--shamelessly. Even ask their name again after a month of seeing them--because I forgot, lol.

Just respond with, "Hey <Insert a different name>, look forward to seeing you Sat at 8pm ;)"
 

Lozboss

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I'd let it go for a first date.

After it becomes delete territory.

I'd also call her a different name- and if she flags you you say 'well I'm not Matt so I thought we were playing a game!" And be cheeky
 

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Ruler said:
Sh!t test. Act as if nothing happened.

Lozboss you made me lmao.

Sh!t test? :crackup:

She sent the text to the wrong guy. If she doesn't know who the fvck you are you're not that important to her. Neeeeeeeext!
 

GS750

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Could be a sh*t test, could be an accident, could be anything. Over-analyzing is for chicks. Just go and make her forget about "Matt". And don't bring it up. Say nothing.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Uropa

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Last of the Alphas said:
Welcome to the forum.

However, he should reply in the above manner. It's not like they're in a committed relationship.
Hey, thanks.

If he was an important prospect she would know his name. Sending him a text that was intended for "Matt" shows her low interest. I'd wait to see if her IL goes up before texting a date.
 

Bingo-Player

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id be tempted just to play along for a bit

text her back using a wrong name for her too see what happens

cant say anything like this has ever happend to me before but ive done it go girls plenty of times
 

TheMonkeyKing

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Thanks for the input lads. Decided to sack it off as not really in to it anyway. Gonna try banging a 110lb dancer with fake knockers instead :)
 
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