"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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OLD Rule #2

marmel75

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Any woman who says "Maybe" or "Possibly" when you ask them to grab a drink or out on a date is a waste of your time and energy. Do NOT engage them past that point.

Part of the reason I think guys have issues with OLD is they end up engaging too many women like this instead of simply cutting bait and finding women who are wanting to meet you. They talk with them for another week, week and a half, two weeks because they "aren't comfortable" with meeting yet, or they "want to get to know you better".

Bullsh!t.

They just aren't interested enough to say Yes

So you end up finally getting them to go out with you, or set up a date after a "good texting session" and then they flake or nothing happens in date, or you "have a great date" but then never hear from them again. Why? Because you were already starting at -20 before you even met them. They already were convinced you weren't there type, or weren't good looking enough or weren't attractive for whatever reason to them.

So no matter what happened in date, you were trying to dig yourself out of a hole just to get to get back to 0.

STOP WASTING TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE UNINTERESTED WOMEN TO BE MORE INTERESTED AND START SPENDING YOUR TIME TALKING WITH MORE WOMEN THAT ARE INTERESTED.

You will get laid far more often only engaging interested women from the start, trust me.


 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Especially with online! If I'm talking and I go for the #, and she stops/ gives excuses, I block and try someone else. I don't have time for games.
 

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This kinda points to my biggest problem with pickup game in general....

I don't like to do too much convincing when it comes to women.

I like to see some interest off the bat, or i'd prolly just rather spend my time with my friends or something. One of my buddies is very pushy and I see he has decent results that way. Just not my cup of tea I guess, doesn't really match my character. If i'm talking to a girl and I even see a hint of a "take it or leave it" kinda attitude i'll just ghost her.

Appearance is important to the hookup, if you cant reel her in with how you look and keep her there with good times and fun. You're prolly looking at substandard sex and attraction anyways.
 
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