Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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OLD Rule #2

marmel75

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Any woman who says "Maybe" or "Possibly" when you ask them to grab a drink or out on a date is a waste of your time and energy. Do NOT engage them past that point.

Part of the reason I think guys have issues with OLD is they end up engaging too many women like this instead of simply cutting bait and finding women who are wanting to meet you. They talk with them for another week, week and a half, two weeks because they "aren't comfortable" with meeting yet, or they "want to get to know you better".

Bullsh!t.

They just aren't interested enough to say Yes

So you end up finally getting them to go out with you, or set up a date after a "good texting session" and then they flake or nothing happens in date, or you "have a great date" but then never hear from them again. Why? Because you were already starting at -20 before you even met them. They already were convinced you weren't there type, or weren't good looking enough or weren't attractive for whatever reason to them.

So no matter what happened in date, you were trying to dig yourself out of a hole just to get to get back to 0.

STOP WASTING TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE UNINTERESTED WOMEN TO BE MORE INTERESTED AND START SPENDING YOUR TIME TALKING WITH MORE WOMEN THAT ARE INTERESTED.

You will get laid far more often only engaging interested women from the start, trust me.


 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Especially with online! If I'm talking and I go for the #, and she stops/ gives excuses, I block and try someone else. I don't have time for games.
 

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This kinda points to my biggest problem with pickup game in general....

I don't like to do too much convincing when it comes to women.

I like to see some interest off the bat, or i'd prolly just rather spend my time with my friends or something. One of my buddies is very pushy and I see he has decent results that way. Just not my cup of tea I guess, doesn't really match my character. If i'm talking to a girl and I even see a hint of a "take it or leave it" kinda attitude i'll just ghost her.

Appearance is important to the hookup, if you cant reel her in with how you look and keep her there with good times and fun. You're prolly looking at substandard sex and attraction anyways.
 
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