“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OLD Rule #2

marmel75

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Any woman who says "Maybe" or "Possibly" when you ask them to grab a drink or out on a date is a waste of your time and energy. Do NOT engage them past that point.

Part of the reason I think guys have issues with OLD is they end up engaging too many women like this instead of simply cutting bait and finding women who are wanting to meet you. They talk with them for another week, week and a half, two weeks because they "aren't comfortable" with meeting yet, or they "want to get to know you better".

Bullsh!t.

They just aren't interested enough to say Yes

So you end up finally getting them to go out with you, or set up a date after a "good texting session" and then they flake or nothing happens in date, or you "have a great date" but then never hear from them again. Why? Because you were already starting at -20 before you even met them. They already were convinced you weren't there type, or weren't good looking enough or weren't attractive for whatever reason to them.

So no matter what happened in date, you were trying to dig yourself out of a hole just to get to get back to 0.

STOP WASTING TIME TRYING TO CONVINCE UNINTERESTED WOMEN TO BE MORE INTERESTED AND START SPENDING YOUR TIME TALKING WITH MORE WOMEN THAT ARE INTERESTED.

You will get laid far more often only engaging interested women from the start, trust me.


 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Especially with online! If I'm talking and I go for the #, and she stops/ gives excuses, I block and try someone else. I don't have time for games.
 

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This kinda points to my biggest problem with pickup game in general....

I don't like to do too much convincing when it comes to women.

I like to see some interest off the bat, or i'd prolly just rather spend my time with my friends or something. One of my buddies is very pushy and I see he has decent results that way. Just not my cup of tea I guess, doesn't really match my character. If i'm talking to a girl and I even see a hint of a "take it or leave it" kinda attitude i'll just ghost her.

Appearance is important to the hookup, if you cant reel her in with how you look and keep her there with good times and fun. You're prolly looking at substandard sex and attraction anyways.
 
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