"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Will have to see just how fat in person, if I’m embarrassed when we sit together it’s a no-go cut it short be on my way. Her writing patterns trigger “fat” in my mind but how fat I don’t know. The others have to message me first still haven’t so, but this one is on my fishing line hook line and sinker so might as well venture so I gain. She lives in an apartment which just got flooded by the tenant next to her.
Do you have her number or just talking on the Tinder app? If you have her number use spydailer and get her full name and plug it into facebook. Then see if you can find her and see more pics of her. If she's a whale then abort and you don't waste time and money going on the date.

It's saved me from a couple whales and low end HBs that had distorted pics that made them look HB7 on match. One of them was a doctor. I thought I hit a gold mine. She looked HB7 on match cute smile and not fat. Looked her up via the number and then saw clips of her from the morning news and pics from where she worked and she was like a high end 4. too good to be true.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do you have her number or just talking on the Tinder app? If you have her number use spydailer and get her full name and plug it into facebook. Then see if you can find her and see more pics of her. If she's a whale then abort and you don't waste time and money going on the date.

It's saved me from a couple whales and low end HBs that had distorted pics that made them look HB7 on match. One of them was a doctor. I thought I hit a gold mine. She looked HB7 on match cute smile and not fat. Looked her up via the number and then saw clips of her from the morning news and pics from where she worked and she was like a high end 4. too good to be true.
2 of the 4 booms left from yesterday just messaged but I do not have the time to see all of them, I will be 1000 miles away in 3 days
 
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