"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Will have to see just how fat in person, if I’m embarrassed when we sit together it’s a no-go cut it short be on my way. Her writing patterns trigger “fat” in my mind but how fat I don’t know. The others have to message me first still haven’t so, but this one is on my fishing line hook line and sinker so might as well venture so I gain. She lives in an apartment which just got flooded by the tenant next to her.
Do you have her number or just talking on the Tinder app? If you have her number use spydailer and get her full name and plug it into facebook. Then see if you can find her and see more pics of her. If she's a whale then abort and you don't waste time and money going on the date.

It's saved me from a couple whales and low end HBs that had distorted pics that made them look HB7 on match. One of them was a doctor. I thought I hit a gold mine. She looked HB7 on match cute smile and not fat. Looked her up via the number and then saw clips of her from the morning news and pics from where she worked and she was like a high end 4. too good to be true.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Do you have her number or just talking on the Tinder app? If you have her number use spydailer and get her full name and plug it into facebook. Then see if you can find her and see more pics of her. If she's a whale then abort and you don't waste time and money going on the date.

It's saved me from a couple whales and low end HBs that had distorted pics that made them look HB7 on match. One of them was a doctor. I thought I hit a gold mine. She looked HB7 on match cute smile and not fat. Looked her up via the number and then saw clips of her from the morning news and pics from where she worked and she was like a high end 4. too good to be true.
2 of the 4 booms left from yesterday just messaged but I do not have the time to see all of them, I will be 1000 miles away in 3 days
 
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