"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Her pics caught my eye, but then was let down by the profile. But hey, at least she was honest. Lol.

My self-summary

Old fashioned, trophy wife.

I am divorced with one son that means the world to me.

I enjoy cooking, cleaning, being a stay-at-home mom and trophy wife. I believe a woman should always look good for her man, and her man should be grateful for her efforts and services.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Well at least she cooks and cleans. Not sure WHAT she can cook or what she considers “cleaning”, but it’s better than nothing I guess.lol
 

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Remove the trophy wife from description an that would be a great prospect
 

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Remove the trophy wife from description an that would be a great prospect
Many ladies, even divorced ladies with kids, think they deserve to be a trophy wife just because she's stating she'd be doing the obvious in a marriage.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Her pics caught my eye, but then was let down by the profile. But hey, at least she was honest. Lol.

My self-summary

Old fashioned, trophy wife.

I am divorced with one son that means the world to me.

I enjoy cooking, cleaning, being a stay-at-home mom and trophy wife. I believe a woman should always look good for her man, and her man should be grateful for her efforts and services.
Was this woman in the NY/NJ area? When I was on OLD I remember a woman who had that exact profile. I also decided to pass on her. Funny stuff.
 

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Hey I like Latina women. LOL They're no crazier than any other woman. The only problem I would have would be she would trying to fatten me up so my 6-pack won't show. They are notorious for doing this. She will cuck you with food and decadence. But damn, that's good a$$.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Trophy" at least sounds better than the self-descriptives of "classy" or "sassy."

If an older woman cagles (or however it is spelled) and takes care of herself, I'm okay with that.

Seriously... she's now more humble because her options aren't as plentiful. Opting for a younger (higher demand) female means that you are also dealing with more smugness and attitude.

Oh yeah and sure. Every middle aged (or post middle aged) guy is bagging a young 20 something every night and I'm missing out. Let's keep it real.. okay?
 
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