"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yookiwooki

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Hey all,

Like pretty much everyone else here, i went through my AFC days, and i've completley ruined my chances with plenty of girls in my time...

The problem with me is that I'm still stuck around these girls who ive AFC'd out; most of them are in practically all my classes, so I have to deal with them on a daily basis. To make it even worse, I started off shooting for the best as an AFC, so these are some of the hottest girls I know.

How would a true DJ approach this situation? How should one act around girls who you have previously ruined all chances with? Is it at all worth it to attempt to rekindle these relationships that were shot down years ago? Should I do my best to ignore these girls?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Bvbidd

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If you wait a long time, they will eventually check you out again and give you a second chance if you've changed.

Did you stalk them or were you just 'nice'?
 

Yookiwooki

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it was different for each i guess, one i had a couple really bad im converstaions with until she blocked me, one or two i pretty much ruined every real life converstaion, etc.

I think i did pretty much the variety of creepy to clingy in my time...
 
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