"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey all,

Like pretty much everyone else here, i went through my AFC days, and i've completley ruined my chances with plenty of girls in my time...

The problem with me is that I'm still stuck around these girls who ive AFC'd out; most of them are in practically all my classes, so I have to deal with them on a daily basis. To make it even worse, I started off shooting for the best as an AFC, so these are some of the hottest girls I know.

How would a true DJ approach this situation? How should one act around girls who you have previously ruined all chances with? Is it at all worth it to attempt to rekindle these relationships that were shot down years ago? Should I do my best to ignore these girls?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If you wait a long time, they will eventually check you out again and give you a second chance if you've changed.

Did you stalk them or were you just 'nice'?
 
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it was different for each i guess, one i had a couple really bad im converstaions with until she blocked me, one or two i pretty much ruined every real life converstaion, etc.

I think i did pretty much the variety of creepy to clingy in my time...
 
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