"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey all,

Like pretty much everyone else here, i went through my AFC days, and i've completley ruined my chances with plenty of girls in my time...

The problem with me is that I'm still stuck around these girls who ive AFC'd out; most of them are in practically all my classes, so I have to deal with them on a daily basis. To make it even worse, I started off shooting for the best as an AFC, so these are some of the hottest girls I know.

How would a true DJ approach this situation? How should one act around girls who you have previously ruined all chances with? Is it at all worth it to attempt to rekindle these relationships that were shot down years ago? Should I do my best to ignore these girls?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you wait a long time, they will eventually check you out again and give you a second chance if you've changed.

Did you stalk them or were you just 'nice'?
 
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it was different for each i guess, one i had a couple really bad im converstaions with until she blocked me, one or two i pretty much ruined every real life converstaion, etc.

I think i did pretty much the variety of creepy to clingy in my time...
 
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