"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey all,

Like pretty much everyone else here, i went through my AFC days, and i've completley ruined my chances with plenty of girls in my time...

The problem with me is that I'm still stuck around these girls who ive AFC'd out; most of them are in practically all my classes, so I have to deal with them on a daily basis. To make it even worse, I started off shooting for the best as an AFC, so these are some of the hottest girls I know.

How would a true DJ approach this situation? How should one act around girls who you have previously ruined all chances with? Is it at all worth it to attempt to rekindle these relationships that were shot down years ago? Should I do my best to ignore these girls?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you wait a long time, they will eventually check you out again and give you a second chance if you've changed.

Did you stalk them or were you just 'nice'?
 
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it was different for each i guess, one i had a couple really bad im converstaions with until she blocked me, one or two i pretty much ruined every real life converstaion, etc.

I think i did pretty much the variety of creepy to clingy in my time...
 
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