OLD only offering her instagram

[Datinglife26]

Matched with a woman 24, im 32.

Her hinge prompt was "dont hate me if I ghost you" shes 24 and hot. Im not looking for mrs right. Tbh I just want to plate these kinds of girls who wouldnt be good for relationships.

I replied to her prompts just saying "same"

She matched and response instantly "would you really?"

I told her "If you're boring I will. Why do you ghost people ?"

She says "I get bored easily too"

I responded with "then let's skip the small talk, what's your number?"

She replied that she doesnt give out her number but you can have my instagram.

Keep in mind her Instagram is on her hinge profile, any tom **** or Harry can follow and message her. But then im just lost in the crowd of chumps.

I feel like doing the take away and telling her Im good its number or nothing or something similar.

Recently single, im open to trying out texting game to sharpen my skills vs resistance.

So open for discuss

 

[Bingo-Player]

Keep in mind her Instagram is on her hinge profile, any tom **** or Harry can follow and message her. But then im just lost in the crowd of chumps.

You've met and are conversing with a Gen Z woman on a swipe app ...you're already in a crowd of chumps

It's her playground not yours.

Get out in the real world and build actual report with real women

 

[Datinglife26]

You've met and are conversing with a Gen Z woman on a swipe app ...you're already in a crowd of chumps

It's her playground not yours.

Get out in the real world and build actual report with real women

True, cant lie. The truth hurts. Recently single and work by myself for myself, so only women im meeting rn are married one as I do work for them lol

Guess ill just have to work on being social in the gym if I can

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Time waster

 

[sevbucmash]

She replied that she doesnt give out her number but you can have my instagram.

Well you lost momentum by not replying right away. Anything you write now is crap. Franky she might have even deleted you by now.
You have to understand these women better,

They go online, onto a dating app, and every man is asking them the same thing -- give me your number

Doesn't matter if it's chad like you, or a chimp like some other dude, with game or without game. All ask the same exact thing. How do I know? I did create in my life several female dating accounts just to see what men write.

Everybody is writing the same thing
hi
how are you
what's your number

Then when no number is given, everybody goes cold, just like you.

What you have to do is take initiative in conversation online. My name is Jake, here is my instagram, I've got a bunch of cool photos. What you do for a living?
Etc
Etc
Etc

You have a conversation online. Then you don't ask for her number. No. Because you don't know if you want to meet her or not, or if she wants to meet you or not. Instead you come to it from a-f-a-r.

How do you look at some drinks and banter in a company of sexy guy?

Oh yes, I guess I'm down, or no, I don't think so.

And only then you ask for the god damn number, schedule dates, and make plans.

Your online routine is wrong.

 

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[Tilex]

Her headline (prompt) started with a sh!t test & power grab.
It's bait to lure idiots and rack up followers.

She also cannot use Hinge for promoting or advertising her Instagram. You should report her profile for soliciting. I believe it violates the TOS.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Leave her your number. Let her know to hit you up if she wants to hang out. Move on.

 

[Prepostereax]

giving Insta instead of number = validation seeker.
Waste of time.

"Duh. I already know your insta, it's on your profile.
But I'd be more than happy to bore you"

Then you follow through by ghosting her

 

[Silver Surfer]

"dont hate me if I ghost you” was enough for me to keep it moving.

 

[Vanderdonck]

I think any case where you have to C+P a text conversation is a waste of time already.

 

[Divorced w 3]

Tell her you sent it and it got rejected

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP you got to hook her more before asking for the number. Make her laugh, smile, think, anything to show you are interesting besides saying that you "get bored easily". Not that this chick is worth investing in, but still most any chick will deflect a number request so soon.

 

[BPH]

She's probably a time waster, but you could say you don't have an Instagram and see how she reacts.

She'll either go "Aww well that's too bad" and let things go stale (most likely)...or she'll be interested enough to work with you and give her number.

You could even sweeten the deal by saying "I don't have Instagram, but I'd love to grab drinks with you at X place this Y day...that is, if you break your phone number rule just this once for me "

 

[Solomon]

Time waster

This any woman who offers IG/Snap I instantly unmatched a few months ago a 38 year old wanted to exchange snap I was like **** that