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Saw an old oneitis I had from last year today. Just out of the blue. I hadn't thought about her for awhile but for some reason I just had a feeling that I would see her before going to a class of mine and bam she turns a corner and shes right in front of me. Didn't have a conversation just kind of smiled at each other.

But the weird thing was how much I felt exactly the same when I saw her as I did last year. Never had this happen before for a oneitis I saw again. I usually get completely over them and when I see them again I think how deluded I was before but this time it was as if she was prettier than before.

On a side note this summer I'm going with a group somewhere, five girls range from hb 7-8.5 one is a hb6 and one is a milf. I'm making it a goal to bang all of them before summer's up depending on which one's are still in the group when the summer starts. Not sure how realistic it is but always aim high. :)
 

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wootapotky said:
Saw an old oneitis I had from last year today. Just out of the blue. I hadn't thought about her for awhile but for some reason I just had a feeling that I would see her before going to a class of mine and bam she turns a corner and shes right in front of me. Didn't have a conversation just kind of smiled at each other.

But the weird thing was how much I felt exactly the same when I saw her as I did last year. Never had this happen before for a oneitis I saw again. I usually get completely over them and when I see them again I think how deluded I was before but this time it was as if she was prettier than before.

On a side note this summer I'm going with a group somewhere, five girls range from hb 7-8.5 one is a hb6 and one is a milf. I'm making it a goal to bang all of them before summer's up depending on which one's are still in the group when the summer starts. Not sure how realistic it is but always aim high. :)
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You saw your old oneitis? Why didn't you try to bang her?
 
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because I don't want oneitis again. Oneitis is bad. It turns you into a *****.
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Yeah tell me about it.

But I have a feeling if I f-cked my old one-itis again it would alleviate some of my pain.
 

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I totally get what you mean. It's been a while since I've seen my last oneitis but ever since I've been slowly getting better.

Then one day, at this party I attended, as I was heading to the house I saw her come out and this other dude had his arms around her. I was in total shock. I felt like I was in a movie when the main character would freeze with his jaw wide open cause his old nemesis that he thought he destroyed was staring him right in the face.

She said "hi" to me but I didn't say anything back cause I was take aback.
 
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