"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Saw an old oneitis I had from last year today. Just out of the blue. I hadn't thought about her for awhile but for some reason I just had a feeling that I would see her before going to a class of mine and bam she turns a corner and shes right in front of me. Didn't have a conversation just kind of smiled at each other.

But the weird thing was how much I felt exactly the same when I saw her as I did last year. Never had this happen before for a oneitis I saw again. I usually get completely over them and when I see them again I think how deluded I was before but this time it was as if she was prettier than before.

On a side note this summer I'm going with a group somewhere, five girls range from hb 7-8.5 one is a hb6 and one is a milf. I'm making it a goal to bang all of them before summer's up depending on which one's are still in the group when the summer starts. Not sure how realistic it is but always aim high. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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wootapotky said:
Saw an old oneitis I had from last year today. Just out of the blue. I hadn't thought about her for awhile but for some reason I just had a feeling that I would see her before going to a class of mine and bam she turns a corner and shes right in front of me. Didn't have a conversation just kind of smiled at each other.

But the weird thing was how much I felt exactly the same when I saw her as I did last year. Never had this happen before for a oneitis I saw again. I usually get completely over them and when I see them again I think how deluded I was before but this time it was as if she was prettier than before.

On a side note this summer I'm going with a group somewhere, five girls range from hb 7-8.5 one is a hb6 and one is a milf. I'm making it a goal to bang all of them before summer's up depending on which one's are still in the group when the summer starts. Not sure how realistic it is but always aim high. :)
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You saw your old oneitis? Why didn't you try to bang her?
 
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because I don't want oneitis again. Oneitis is bad. It turns you into a *****.
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Yeah tell me about it.

But I have a feeling if I f-cked my old one-itis again it would alleviate some of my pain.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I totally get what you mean. It's been a while since I've seen my last oneitis but ever since I've been slowly getting better.

Then one day, at this party I attended, as I was heading to the house I saw her come out and this other dude had his arms around her. I was in total shock. I felt like I was in a movie when the main character would freeze with his jaw wide open cause his old nemesis that he thought he destroyed was staring him right in the face.

She said "hi" to me but I didn't say anything back cause I was take aback.
 
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