"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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old friend from HS

gongxia649

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Ok this is the story. I met this girl back in HS, she was in my class. She was never attractive to me, so we were just friends.
So, after HS I didnt see this girl anymore cause shes an UG.

Recently, my friends and i went to a buffet restaurant I saw this girl but didnt recognize her at the beginning. She looks better and attractive now (dunno how she did...). Oh well, during the time i was eating and having a good time with my friends, i see this girl again she was standing there at the entrance. I come to her and ask if i know her. She immediately says that i was familiar to her. Then, we both said you are from HS...
We talked a bit and i asked for her number. She gave me her number and email.

I called her after 2 weeks. She said she was busy moving. So, didnt say much.
I called her again after 1 week. She was busy again doing grocery shopping with her mom. Didnt said much again.
I called again 1 week later. Nobody picked up the phone. so, left a msg. She never call back...So, i think i was becoing an BAFC hahahahaahha.
After a few days later i emailed her saying i wanted to see her. never got any replied back.....im definetly a AFC now.

Told my friend about this girl and what was going on. He told me forget about her. So, thats what i did. Her number and email is gone now.

so, my question is what i did wrong?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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who says you messed up?

how about things in her life are going on, especially with moving and its a bad time to hook up.

who knows, once you stop wondering about her and get busy with other things, whos to say she wont call you up to meet up somewhere.

or maybe high school didnt go over so well on her and she wants nothing to do with anyone that could have treated her poorly for being an ugly duckling. now shes overcome the ugly duckling syndrome, but her mind is still there.
 

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i just got tired of calling her and never got any call back.

so, i just move on.

too many girls out there to pick up.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Originally posted by gongxia649
working on both. there is not problem with that right?
nah man, thats good sh*t. try gaming at least 3 or 4 girls at once.
 
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