"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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old friend from HS

gongxia649

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Ok this is the story. I met this girl back in HS, she was in my class. She was never attractive to me, so we were just friends.
So, after HS I didnt see this girl anymore cause shes an UG.

Recently, my friends and i went to a buffet restaurant I saw this girl but didnt recognize her at the beginning. She looks better and attractive now (dunno how she did...). Oh well, during the time i was eating and having a good time with my friends, i see this girl again she was standing there at the entrance. I come to her and ask if i know her. She immediately says that i was familiar to her. Then, we both said you are from HS...
We talked a bit and i asked for her number. She gave me her number and email.

I called her after 2 weeks. She said she was busy moving. So, didnt say much.
I called her again after 1 week. She was busy again doing grocery shopping with her mom. Didnt said much again.
I called again 1 week later. Nobody picked up the phone. so, left a msg. She never call back...So, i think i was becoing an BAFC hahahahaahha.
After a few days later i emailed her saying i wanted to see her. never got any replied back.....im definetly a AFC now.

Told my friend about this girl and what was going on. He told me forget about her. So, thats what i did. Her number and email is gone now.

so, my question is what i did wrong?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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penkitten

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who says you messed up?

how about things in her life are going on, especially with moving and its a bad time to hook up.

who knows, once you stop wondering about her and get busy with other things, whos to say she wont call you up to meet up somewhere.

or maybe high school didnt go over so well on her and she wants nothing to do with anyone that could have treated her poorly for being an ugly duckling. now shes overcome the ugly duckling syndrome, but her mind is still there.
 

gongxia649

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i just got tired of calling her and never got any call back.

so, i just move on.

too many girls out there to pick up.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lebRambo

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Originally posted by gongxia649
working on both. there is not problem with that right?
nah man, thats good sh*t. try gaming at least 3 or 4 girls at once.
 
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