MisterMike
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What can I do to make sure I stand out?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
OLD First Meeting/Date Tips
- Thread starter MisterMike
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
What i do is keep the conversation light and funny, i don't touch them AT ALL, don't talk about sex, don't talk about negative stuff, don't make a date during a date, and don't talk about the future EVER.
99% of the time i can get a second date, but i usually don't go for it cause i'm a bit picky about women.
If she touches you or mentions the future you're most likelly in.
99% of the time i can get a second date, but i usually don't go for it cause i'm a bit picky about women.
If she touches you or mentions the future you're most likelly in.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Do the same thing you always do that works for you, keeping in mind that the standard is low because of how many creepy losers are on OLD. So she'll probably be happy if you look and act like your profile
ON DATE
Be comfortable, confident and funny!
Doesn't matter where you take her, keep it short simple and quick. I personally go out for a drink at a bar and keep it casual.
Don't talk about yourself, no one cares.
Share some lame jokes and let her tell you how bad they are - Works like a charm.
Be the first one to end it.
POST DATE
No calling and texting. If she does text or call , keep it short.
Don't take it personally if she doesn't respond well and Move on!
If she does then you meet her for a second date
Goodluck!
Be comfortable, confident and funny!
Doesn't matter where you take her, keep it short simple and quick. I personally go out for a drink at a bar and keep it casual.
Don't talk about yourself, no one cares.
Share some lame jokes and let her tell you how bad they are - Works like a charm.
Be the first one to end it.
POST DATE
No calling and texting. If she does text or call , keep it short.
Don't take it personally if she doesn't respond well and Move on!
If she does then you meet her for a second date
Goodluck!
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Eat a bunch of bean burritos and rip a big one on the date. Guaranteed, you'll stand out!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
MisterMike
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So far I'm 4 dates in. A huge amount of girls seemed to be looking for text buddies and don't actually want to meet up. FOBO seems to also be playing a role. I look pretty much just like my profile pic except I'm in a little better shape now.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
This is why you go for the date FAST, else you'll end up chatting with them for 6 months only to discover they live in Iceland.
MisterMike
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Yeah, pretty much what I do, but the amount of flakes is just surprising.
