MisterMike
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What can I do to make sure I stand out?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OLD First Meeting/Date Tips
- Thread starter MisterMike
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
What i do is keep the conversation light and funny, i don't touch them AT ALL, don't talk about sex, don't talk about negative stuff, don't make a date during a date, and don't talk about the future EVER.
99% of the time i can get a second date, but i usually don't go for it cause i'm a bit picky about women.
If she touches you or mentions the future you're most likelly in.
99% of the time i can get a second date, but i usually don't go for it cause i'm a bit picky about women.
If she touches you or mentions the future you're most likelly in.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Do the same thing you always do that works for you, keeping in mind that the standard is low because of how many creepy losers are on OLD. So she'll probably be happy if you look and act like your profile
ON DATE
Be comfortable, confident and funny!
Doesn't matter where you take her, keep it short simple and quick. I personally go out for a drink at a bar and keep it casual.
Don't talk about yourself, no one cares.
Share some lame jokes and let her tell you how bad they are - Works like a charm.
Be the first one to end it.
POST DATE
No calling and texting. If she does text or call , keep it short.
Don't take it personally if she doesn't respond well and Move on!
If she does then you meet her for a second date
Goodluck!
Be comfortable, confident and funny!
Doesn't matter where you take her, keep it short simple and quick. I personally go out for a drink at a bar and keep it casual.
Don't talk about yourself, no one cares.
Share some lame jokes and let her tell you how bad they are - Works like a charm.
Be the first one to end it.
POST DATE
No calling and texting. If she does text or call , keep it short.
Don't take it personally if she doesn't respond well and Move on!
If she does then you meet her for a second date
Goodluck!
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Eat a bunch of bean burritos and rip a big one on the date. Guaranteed, you'll stand out!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
MisterMike
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So far I'm 4 dates in. A huge amount of girls seemed to be looking for text buddies and don't actually want to meet up. FOBO seems to also be playing a role. I look pretty much just like my profile pic except I'm in a little better shape now.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
This is why you go for the date FAST, else you'll end up chatting with them for 6 months only to discover they live in Iceland.
MisterMike
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Yeah, pretty much what I do, but the amount of flakes is just surprising.
