MisterMike
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What can I do to make sure I stand out?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
OLD First Meeting/Date Tips
- Thread starter MisterMike
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
What i do is keep the conversation light and funny, i don't touch them AT ALL, don't talk about sex, don't talk about negative stuff, don't make a date during a date, and don't talk about the future EVER.
99% of the time i can get a second date, but i usually don't go for it cause i'm a bit picky about women.
If she touches you or mentions the future you're most likelly in.
99% of the time i can get a second date, but i usually don't go for it cause i'm a bit picky about women.
If she touches you or mentions the future you're most likelly in.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Do the same thing you always do that works for you, keeping in mind that the standard is low because of how many creepy losers are on OLD. So she'll probably be happy if you look and act like your profile
ON DATE
Be comfortable, confident and funny!
Doesn't matter where you take her, keep it short simple and quick. I personally go out for a drink at a bar and keep it casual.
Don't talk about yourself, no one cares.
Share some lame jokes and let her tell you how bad they are - Works like a charm.
Be the first one to end it.
POST DATE
No calling and texting. If she does text or call , keep it short.
Don't take it personally if she doesn't respond well and Move on!
If she does then you meet her for a second date
Goodluck!
Be comfortable, confident and funny!
Doesn't matter where you take her, keep it short simple and quick. I personally go out for a drink at a bar and keep it casual.
Don't talk about yourself, no one cares.
Share some lame jokes and let her tell you how bad they are - Works like a charm.
Be the first one to end it.
POST DATE
No calling and texting. If she does text or call , keep it short.
Don't take it personally if she doesn't respond well and Move on!
If she does then you meet her for a second date
Goodluck!
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Eat a bunch of bean burritos and rip a big one on the date. Guaranteed, you'll stand out!
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
MisterMike
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So far I'm 4 dates in. A huge amount of girls seemed to be looking for text buddies and don't actually want to meet up. FOBO seems to also be playing a role. I look pretty much just like my profile pic except I'm in a little better shape now.
djthiago1
Master Don Juan
This is why you go for the date FAST, else you'll end up chatting with them for 6 months only to discover they live in Iceland.
MisterMike
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Yeah, pretty much what I do, but the amount of flakes is just surprising.
