"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Old ****buddy drunk called her
- Thread starter rapsta
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tictac
Banned
Texting someone not to text you is bullsh*t.
Look closely to see your own future.
Night-hawk
Master Don Juan
Not suggesting you do that lol.
Don't let her fvck with you. You let her. She will. Better to piss her off then have her feel nothing.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I am on the edge of not being reactive, and let her do whatever she wants and I trust her with it. But it just doesn't feel quite right.
I am not in scarcity of losing her, but it just doesn't feel right letting her go for something like this. At the same time, it doesn't feel right letting her go on chatting with a former ****buddy. Gahh. Complicated
I definitely see what you mean.Danger said:
As for the relationship, yes she knows it. I had a respectful and calm chat with her today about all this.
And I asked her what she responded to that guy when he wrote to her (I said because he must obviously have written or called you back since you didn't answer his calls).
She told me she just ignored his messages.
And we went on as usual.
I mean, I am not totally out of the league.. I know when a girl is trustworthy or not.. but it's just that that whole situation was disrespectful.
And I don't want to come off as an insecure dude and tell her to remove him from facebook