"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Old articles, where are they?

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I decided I'd post this instead of e-mailing you, Allen, in case others were wondering the same thing. I was thinking of some field testing assignments for my group and remembered an article that appeared on the main page by Deagleclaw about a club approach that had to do with walking up from behind a chick and grinding on her with our her seeing you. The article (as well as others I remember) doesn't seem to be available. Is there any way to get to these articles once the links are taken off the Don Juan Center home page?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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To see all the articles you just click the "articles" link mentioned on the left side of the "Don Juan Center".

I think the one you are thinking of is actually a "Quick Tip". I believe it was called something like "Butt bumping".

To see all the Quick Tips you can click the Quick Tips link which is mentioned on the left side of the Don Juan Center.

I think this is the one you're looking for: http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip107.htm

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No, Deep Blue. That was not the article I was talking about and the "articles" page doesn't show all the articles ever featured here.

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Maybe at some point each article gets removed from the site entirely, so that after it has been gone for a year or two it can be presented again as if it were a new article.

:)

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Originally posted by DeepBlue:
Maybe at some point each article gets removed from the site entirely, so that after it has been gone for a year or two it can be presented again as if it were a new article.

:)

DeepBlue
MAYBE we should just let ALLEN answer the question since neither of us know the answer, LOL!


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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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[b[
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...let ALLEN answer the question...
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I seriously doubt that my speculations are preventing him from answering.

You said you posted your question here because you figured others might be interested too. I am. If this is a private conversation you could have emailed him after all.
 

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damn nick...are you wanting to find out how many guys get slapped or what? lol Lord help ANY guy that came up behind me and started grinding up against me like that. He'd get cuffed upside the melon for invading my space. I hate those blind approaches...it scares the bejesus out of you. And if the girl is kinda timid she might wet her pants.
 

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Thanks, Allen.

Wyld, if a girl is really that timid and would resent what Deagleclaw describes that much why would she be on the dance floor at a club? None of us are going to be approaching you anyway so don't worry. Girls who go to clubs expect this kind of stuff and they think more of the guys who do it than the guys who stand on the wall with their thumbs in their asses.

Thanks for the irrelevant details about yourself, very much appreciated on ALL the threads you offer them on
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Seriously nick...going up behind a girl without her seeing you approach and grinding on her will more often than not weird her out. Approaching from the front or side would be better. I don't go out clubbing now...but I used to go out a lot before I got pregnant...every Thursday and Saturday nights. Approaching girls on the dance floor is a good thing, but the blind approach is not something women like.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I'll let you know what field reports are generated from this assignment, Wyld. I know that backing up what you say with any kind of solid evidence is a somewhat foreign concept to you, but I will happy to solicit comments from you on what we find.


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