"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Old articles, where are they?

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I decided I'd post this instead of e-mailing you, Allen, in case others were wondering the same thing. I was thinking of some field testing assignments for my group and remembered an article that appeared on the main page by Deagleclaw about a club approach that had to do with walking up from behind a chick and grinding on her with our her seeing you. The article (as well as others I remember) doesn't seem to be available. Is there any way to get to these articles once the links are taken off the Don Juan Center home page?

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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To see all the articles you just click the "articles" link mentioned on the left side of the "Don Juan Center".

I think the one you are thinking of is actually a "Quick Tip". I believe it was called something like "Butt bumping".

To see all the Quick Tips you can click the Quick Tips link which is mentioned on the left side of the Don Juan Center.

I think this is the one you're looking for: http://www.sosuave.com/quick/tip107.htm

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No, Deep Blue. That was not the article I was talking about and the "articles" page doesn't show all the articles ever featured here.

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Maybe at some point each article gets removed from the site entirely, so that after it has been gone for a year or two it can be presented again as if it were a new article.

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Originally posted by DeepBlue:
Maybe at some point each article gets removed from the site entirely, so that after it has been gone for a year or two it can be presented again as if it were a new article.

:)

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MAYBE we should just let ALLEN answer the question since neither of us know the answer, LOL!


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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[b[
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...let ALLEN answer the question...
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I seriously doubt that my speculations are preventing him from answering.

You said you posted your question here because you figured others might be interested too. I am. If this is a private conversation you could have emailed him after all.
 

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damn nick...are you wanting to find out how many guys get slapped or what? lol Lord help ANY guy that came up behind me and started grinding up against me like that. He'd get cuffed upside the melon for invading my space. I hate those blind approaches...it scares the bejesus out of you. And if the girl is kinda timid she might wet her pants.
 

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Thanks, Allen.

Wyld, if a girl is really that timid and would resent what Deagleclaw describes that much why would she be on the dance floor at a club? None of us are going to be approaching you anyway so don't worry. Girls who go to clubs expect this kind of stuff and they think more of the guys who do it than the guys who stand on the wall with their thumbs in their asses.

Thanks for the irrelevant details about yourself, very much appreciated on ALL the threads you offer them on
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Seriously nick...going up behind a girl without her seeing you approach and grinding on her will more often than not weird her out. Approaching from the front or side would be better. I don't go out clubbing now...but I used to go out a lot before I got pregnant...every Thursday and Saturday nights. Approaching girls on the dance floor is a good thing, but the blind approach is not something women like.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I'll let you know what field reports are generated from this assignment, Wyld. I know that backing up what you say with any kind of solid evidence is a somewhat foreign concept to you, but I will happy to solicit comments from you on what we find.


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